BAD: "Select proper shade of stockings for bridesmaids and have each girl buy a pair...Buy a lipstick and nail polish for all attendants to use. That way, all will wear the same shade."
GOOD: "You want a happy, serene and memorable day--not a stage production. The elaborateness or cost of your wedding will not be the factor that will make it outstanding, so do not put a financial strain on your parents or yourself. Feel free to eliminate expensive frills. The wedding should be keyed to your own desires and finances."
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